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Workshop & Event Descriptions

2025 updated info coming soon. In the meantime, check out what we did in 2024 as an idea of what you might see in 2025!

Sunset Play & Beach Photo Shenanigans with Stella Smut, Lora Cross, Ashley Lane, Ellie Reaux, & Rachel Adams

Negril is world-famous for its sunsets and we take full advantage during our nightly sunset photoshoots! Whether you are a beginner photographer or model, an amateur with an mobile phone or a pro with all the gear, or even if you want to just come help, learn, or watch some sexy, kinky content creation, this gathering is for you! Come bring your ideas, shoot, model, hold a light stand, help with props and makeup, tie someone up. 

If you want to have your images posted on the KC website and/or on our social media, please be sure to sign the model release here.  Please note that you can list any limitations you have (e.g. no face, no Twitter, etc.) and if you ever want anything removed that we posted, just let us know and we'll immediately take it down no questions asked! 

Kinky Speed "Dating" with with Lora Cross, Ellie Reaux, & Lucian Rakewell

Come join the whimsical fun at the Kinky Caribbean version of speed "dating"! This is a great way to meet other attendees and connect for possible play, friendships, and you never know what else!

Abductions & Takedowns:  How to get them, how to keep them, and how to avoid being on the evening news with Scott Smith

Does that evil glint come to your eye when you contemplate abducting a hot bottom off the street or out of their bedroom as they slumber? Does you heart race when you think of being abducted? If so, this is the workshop for you. Scott will interweave fantasy with reality and walk you through techniques to give your bottom the most realistic experience possible. 

 

This workshop will be fast paced, full of action, and packed with information: Critical negotiation techniques; a realistic look at injury reduction; how exactly to carry a squirming bottom down a ladder; how to move the bottom out of their home or apartment while minimizing unwanted attention; equipment; and more than one sneaky little trick. Most importantly, Scott will cover his tried and true physical techniques to maximize both safety and success. The shackles are real, the capture is real, the adrenaline is real.

Advanced Flogging: “Gentle” – what the hell are you talking about? with Scott Smith

Getting what you want from your floggers including: body mechanics, physics, equipment choice, and mindset to get the most force and accuracy.
 
This will be both demonstration and discussion on the ways and hows of flogging and pummeling. How to get the most out of your floggers through body mechanics and some simple applied physics. What to look for while selecting a flogger or other striking instrument. Tips on reading the bottom. How to decrease fatigue. Two handed techniques. And, how to most assuredly avoid that annoying "Is that all you've got" look from the bottom. 
 
If black and blue are two of your favorite colors, be sure and be there.

Waterboarding with Scott Smith

For those bottoms who still give you the, “is that all you’ve got look”, this should take care of them. It will make them wet, it will likely make you wet, and if they decide to heave, you’ll know what they had for dinner. This is about as subtle as a freight train, or Scott Smith, as they are rather comparable. This is a guaranteed way to make the hardened bottom a little more pliable, and soggy. Straight from the newsreals, complete with begging, screaming, and crying, it’s waterboarding.

Breath Control with Scott Smith

Taking their breath away while avoiding the flat line: a realistic look at methods, risks, and safety for novices to seasoned experts.
 
The goals of this workshop are to provide a real-world examination of breath control through the eyes of a former paramedic and lifetime edge-player. We'll discuss the two broad categories of 'breath control' and delve into each with technique examples, safety, physiology, risk assessment, and more. The end result: allowing you and your partners to make the best decisions possible for yourselves.

Torture Ties with Scott Smith

Let's journey down that rabbit hole together, where the rope passes beyond the caress and finds its teeth. Biting & gnawing along the way. 

 

This class is about suffering, and suffering for a purpose - to build connection. The ties will be painful, the sounds of both top and bottom will be glorious.

 

The outcome will come down to the moment when one participant watches the others pupils dilate and then makes a very individual choice of what to do next.

Sustaining 24/7 dynamics with Protocol, Rituals, Habits and Guided Meditation with Pragma & x0Amanda0x 

Transitioning from scene-based kink where there is a "moment" where dynamic snaps into place towards 24/7 kink where headspace is constant is often a challenge. Day-to-day realities intrude and shatter dynamic and place. Good news! Establishing routine protocols, rituals, habits and even meditation practices can help stabilize your relationship's dynamic. In this 90 minute session combining prepared content, open discussion and demonstrations Pragma and his slave x0amanda0x will leave you with actionable ideas to immediately improve your kink.

* Prepared content, discussion and demos Description

* Come as you are, bring a partner if you have one.

* Suitable for all skill levels 

Lessons Learned (and to be learned) from a Lifetime of Ethical Non-Monogamy with Pragma

Ethical non-monogamy can enrich relationships but also presents unique challenges and learning curves. This workshop delves into the complexities, joys, and lessons learned from long-term practice of ethical non-monogamy. Through a combination of prepared content, guided discussions, and reflections earned over more than 30 years of ENM, pragma will offer a comprehensive overview of how to navigate the waters of love, jealousy, communication, and commitment outside traditional monogamous paradigms. Participants will explore real-life scenarios, common pitfalls, and success stories to gain a deeper understanding of what it takes to establish and sustain healthy, ethical non-monogamous relationships. What is Needed/What to Bring: An open mind and respect for diverse relationship structures. Note-taking materials are encouraged for capturing insights and actionable advice. Bring an open mind and respect for diverse relationship structures. Note-taking materials are encouraged for capturing insights and actionable advice.

Prepared content, discussion, and participant reflections.

Suitable for all skill levels and experience. 

Squirting 101 - Get Wet Or Go Home with HearMyRoar and PeachAfterDark

Release the pressure with this workshop suitable for any skill level - from complete beginners to high-pressure squirting pros.  In this hilariously wet workshop, you'll learn the secrets of spraying, jetting, and outright splooshing like a pro. This isn't a boring theoretical workshop, our focus would be on practical advice and helping each and every one of you have a blast (pun intended). HearMyRoar will share secret techniques to get every woman squirt consistently and every dominant partner to achieve results without feeling like he went through a crossfit session. You're welcome to show your skills and share your knowledge at all times - this is a sharing experience that would benefit every participant. WARNING: this is a practical workshop, be prepared to squirt or be squirted until everybody is wet and happy.


Curriculum:
1. Intro - h
ow it works, theory, how to do it safely.
2. Preparation - massage, arousal, bondage if suitable.
3. Warming up and basic warm-up technique.
4. The real deal - technique, tempo, how to do it effectively without tiring.
5. Squirt - secret techniques to get them to the finish line.
6. Demonstrations.
7. Let's get wet! - play party.

* What is need/What to bring - Bring a lot of water and drink as much as you can before the workshop. Ropes, cuffs or any restraining accessories would also help.
*  Skill level/track (if applicable)- All levels 
* Lecture, demonstration, and a hands-on practical session

I’m Ready For My Close Up, Sir: How to Pose for Fetish Photography with Lethal

Have you ever had your picture taken and not liked it? Let’s fix that! We will go over small adjustments you can make to have a big effect on how your kinky pictures turn out. Whether these shots are for your personal spank bank or for sale on the internet, this class is sure to empower you to feel more confident in front of the camera!  

* The class will be lecture style with demonstrations and hands-on practice time with coaching.

* This class is for all humans (and non-humans!) who have a body. 

* Lethal is an erotic art model with 10+ years experience posing in front of the camera. 

* What is needed/What to bring - Yourself! Optional things to bring: A camera/phone; anything specific you’d like to practice posing in/with (rope; an outfit; accessories; etc.) is  an erotic art model with 10+ years experience posing in front of the camera. 

How To Be a Good Girl/Boy/Thing: Exploring Submission with Lethal

s-types: Do you yearn for the praise that comes from pleasing your D-type? We will discuss different types of bottoming and a multitude of ways to serve and satisfy. This class will not only offer tips and tricks— we will explore the depths of your submission and help you tap into the inner good girl/boy/thing you’ve always wanted to be. 

  • All levels welcome. This class is “s” side of the slash focused, but tops are welcome to attend. 

  • Lecture; demonstration; and hands-on practice time 

  • What is need/What to bring - A willingness to please 

Unraveling Yourself: A Creative Exploration of Self-Expression with Rope with Rucifer & Lethal 

Learn what it takes to lead your rope bottom on a journey that can truly touch their heart and mind. Suitable for all  skill levels, for rope tops and bottoms. 

* What to bring: a hank of rope and a bottom. (Presenters will have some extra rope if anyone needs and they can partner up with someone in class if they don’t have a partner) 

Mastering the Dance of Dynamics: A Deep Dive into Protocol and position with Rucifer & Lethal 

We’ll delve deep into the intricate world of power dynamics, rules, and etiquette within kink dynamics. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or a curious newcomer, this class is designed to explore the importance of protocols in establishing trust, respect, and boundaries. From understanding different types of protocols to implementing them effectively in your dynamic, this class will empower you to navigate the complex landscape of protocol with confidence and clarity. 

Relationships Unchained: A Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory  with Phoenix Phyre, Myrina, Crimson Dragonfly, and Tristan (Swinky Life)

Opening your relationship can be tricky but very rewarding! Society dictates relationship rules but why? We discuss the foundation of creating this dynamic with your partner. The benefits, the pitfalls and everything in between. Breaking down myths and misconceptions, we provide a framework of building a strong foundation through communication, trust and vulnerability to explore open relationships as a couple. Hosted by the Swinky Life crew (aka World’s Okayest Poly Foursome), the workshop will close with a discussion of the many variations of polyamorous relationships. The presenters will openly share the challenges they face in their day-to-day lives, and how "being Poly" has changed their lives including how they balance all of the various pushes and pulls and  work together to make this an amazing lifestyle choice.

Bridging the Gap between Swinging and Kink with Phoenix Phyre, Myrina, Crimson Dragonfly, and Tristan (Swinky Life)

In this open roundtable forum, we discuss the myths and misconceptions that surround swinging and kink as well as the commonalities between these two communities. We talk about challenges kinksters can face when engaging with ethical non-monogamists, aka swingers and vice versa. We go in-depth on the differences in consent, negotiation, and social norms and how these ideas are firmly in place in both communities but operate very differently.  We share our experiences and answer questions from participants about the swinging

Beginner Bedroom Rope Play with Phoenix Phyre, Myrina, Crimson Dragonfly, and Tristan (Swinky Life)

This hands-on workshop for learning rope skills specifically focuses on light bedroom play. We teach a basic single column, a basic double column, and specific tie-off skills well suited to bedroom environments. We then  begin creatively combining those basic skills into fun restraints designed to enhance bedroom play. As with all Swinky Life workshops, our goal is that attendees learn good useful skills that they can leave, go straight back to their room, and begin having fun.

Smack My Ass and Call Me Swinky with Phoenix Phyre, Myrina, Crimson Dragonfly, and Tristan (Swinky Life)

A beginner-level impact play workshop designed for folks with little to no experience in impact play, covering everything from "I am kinda curious" up to "We have done some spanking and stuff, but we really want to turn the volume up." We start with putting your hands on your partner and move through using toys, household items, floggers, and paddles. We discuss different techniques, considerations, and communication and incorporate a lot of hands-on guided lab time. As with all SwinkyLife workshops, our goal is that folks leave armed with lots of great information, and a sense of confidence to use that new information immediately, having gained that confidence in the hands-on lab.

Vitality and Sexual Health with Dr. Bing Parkinson

Welcome to the ultimate power-up for your mojo: Vitality and Sexual Health Workshop!  Ever dreamt of having mind-blowing, toe-curling, absolutely unbelievable sex while feeling like a rockstar in every aspect of your life? Well, buckle up because that's exactly what we're all about! 


Join us in this joyous celebration of all things sexy and vibrant as we dive into the realm of cutting-edge medical treatments and hormone optimization. Whether you're aiming for peak performance in the Gym or bedroom, we've got you covered!
Expect an electrifying journey through both medical and non-pharmacologic treatments that actually work wonders in promoting vitality throughout all stages of life. From tackling anxiety to smashing through barriers of sexual dysfunction and erectile woes, we're here to guide you toward a life filled with boundless energy and satisfaction.


But hey, it's not just about the mechanics; it's about embracing every shade of human desire and pleasure. That's why we're all about celebrating diversity and welcoming all lifestyles and kinks with open arms. After all, when it comes to feeling fantastic, there's no one-size-fits-all approach!   So, get ready to unleash your inner dynamo and embark on a journey toward a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling you. Because when it comes to vitality and sexual health, the sky's the limit—and we're here to help you soar! 

Fire Play 101 with Domina Mara

Ever wondered how flames feel on the body?  The sensual, warm feeling of an edgy element can be used to tease or create sexy sensations on your partner.  What about uses for therapy?  Fire can be used during massage and cupping as well.
•       Skill level/Prerequisites:  All levels
•       What to bring:  Anything to take notes.  Fire torches if and  70% alcohol. (optional / if you have them)
•        ***Wear cotton or swimwear or be nude to participate!

What it means to be a Dominatrix with Domina Mara

Want to know what the perspective is from a Female-in-charge perspective?  What types of archetypes are associated with a Domme?  What type of basic psychology goes into leading a scene or relationship?  These questions will be answered along with some illuminating history and demonstration.
•     Skill level/Prerequisites:  All levels, all genders + dynamics welcome
•     What to bring:  Anything to take notes. 

Kinky & Sexy Photography For Everyone with Stella Smut

Whether you are shooting in your own bedroom in private or for social media posting, or you are shooting for Only Fans or for paid work, there are some fundamental tricks and considerations that will enhance everyone's images, including lighting, framing, posing, set and background, angles, themes, and intentions, and more! Bring you mobile phones or expensive gear - it doesn't matter as all of the content will be appliable to everyone regardless of gear!

Cigar & Ashtray Service Workshop and Demo

Cigar service can be an extremely intimate and fulfilling way to connect. It can also be a lot of things, including cigar preparation and lighting, ashtray service, cigar care and storage, or can even include ash/body play. It often can incorporate D/s protocols such as slave positions or speech restrictions. In this relaxed workshop and demonstration on the beach, Direwo1f and BananaBell will demonstrate ways to prepare and light a cigar and how to safely engage in human ashtray service. Come and, learn, try one or both if you would like, or just watch and be social. The cigar circle will directly follow.  

Cigar Social - Cigars, chocolate, boots, rum, whiskey, protocols and all the other things

Kick of your night before the play party! Cigar socials at Kinky Caribbean are relaxed and fun social gatherings on the beach where attendees can engage in one ore more activities, including cigar service, human ashtray service, eat chocolate, drink drinks, boot black, be social, or engage in any other protocol or service activities in a fun group vibe. Bring food and drink offerings, your favorite smokeables, and anything else that will enhance your evening.

Content Creation Secrets - Panel Discussion- moderated by Stella Smut with Lora Cross, Ashley Lane, Ellie Reaux, & Rachel Adams

Do you create content or have you wanted to? Do you dream of being an Only Fans star? Or do you like to post content on FetLife and other social media just for fun or to enhance your profile? The discussion will focus on all of the secrets, tips, and tricks on how to create better content whether you are pro using a studio or an amateur using your phone in your bedroom.  This discussion panel will be moderated by a real life porn producer and consist of professional models and actresses.

Single Tail Whips Let’s Get Cracking! with Jonathan and Giovanna

Jonathan has been a professional stagefight director in Britain, Canada, Europe and the USA since 1984 and has been training with singletails since 1995. Gio is a professional ballet dancer and started practicing with whips in 2005.


Together we’ll be covering the basics of whip cracking. Please bring your own wide brimmed hat, eye protection, (sunglasses are fine) and your own single tails if you have them, but not floggers!  

Although we will touch on the use of whips in play and the psychological aspects of “creating a scene”, this will mostly be a practical class. Our aim is for you to get cracking ASAP!

Please enjoy these videos of the presenters throwing whips:

Jonathan Whipcrackshttps://youtu.be/Ot9fhHTIAdQ

Giovanna Whipcracks: https://youtu.be/nnKLG300g14

The Art of Erotic Tickling with Jonathan and Giovanna

The Art of Erotic Tickling’ or, ‘The Feather is Mightier Than The Bullwhip’ is a class Gio and Jonathan have taught several times in the past in Canada, England, Jamaica, and the USA. A growing kink, tickling’s often a hard limit for even the most dedicated pain slut.


This can be very interesting because it’s so subtly devastating, especially when combined with bondage, and can be used to vary sensations in play to prolong activity without leaving the slightest mark. Used on a susceptible person, the feather in an educated hand is truly vicious! Laughter releases endorphins- AND it’s a fantastic abs workout!

Ask a Sex Worker with Ellie Reaux

Everyone has their own opinion of what it means so be a sex worker. From the humble origins of prostitution, courtesans, and geishas to the digital age of cam girls and only fans creators. In this seminar we delve into the history of sexwork and how it has transformed in the modern age. In the second half of the course I will focus on the modern landscape of sexwork in the digital age and answer all your burning questions google and reddit never seem to get right. This is an interactive course and attendees are highly encouraged to ask questions! While presented from the female perspective, all genders and identities will benefit from emphasis on sex positivity and the beneficial role of sex work in relationships. In the last part of this workshop Ellie will spend some time answering specifics about the ‘logistics’ of setting up a career in sexwork. So if you’ve ever wondered how to start and OnlyFans page you will not want to miss this opportunity.

Pony Play Gathering with Sumbmissann

Come all ponies and trainers or anyone that is curious about pony play to watch or Giddy Up and join the fun! We’ll have an informal gathering, open to all. No pony play gear? No problem! SubMissAnn will bring some pony play items including some yarn pony tails and rope alternatives, and a few easy bits for Ponies. Handlers: we have some reins that you can borrow. SubMissAnn will demonstrate some easy gates and will ask for volunteers, or you can play on your own.  There will be some fun Western games - come win a ribbon! This will be a relaxed and an informative time that highlights pony play is all about having fun!

Kink Dimensionalized for Relationships with Lucian Rakewell

If you ever wished Esther Perel covered lifestyle kink, and TED talks covered BDSM, this is the seminar for you! Whether brand new to kink or a BDSM veteran, this seminar is focused on all levels and archetypes. Through this workshop, tales from the front lines and case studies will help empower everyone in their journey and learn what failure and success actually looks like. Through this class, the goal is to permission yourself to co-design the future experiences you want through learning the design patterns and anti-patterns of how kink manifests in healthy relationships.

 

  1. What & Why: “You don’t pick your kinks, your kinks pick you."

    1. What is Kink and Why Should I Care?

    2. 50 Shades of Fraud

    3. Naughty -vs- Kinky

    4. Common Archetypes - Who Am I?

    5. Qualifications for Kink

    6. RACK Framework

  2. How: "Only when you admit who you are, will you get what you want"

    1. The Tyranny of the Rectangle

    2. The Problem with a Safe Word

    3. Dangers of the Toy Box

    4. How to Fail-Forward-Fast

    5. The Power of Narrative

    6. Corridors for Growth

    7. Navigating the Kink Community

  3. Advanced “Do you have anything stronger?"

    1. What does Sexcess Look Like? 

    2. Edge Play

    3. Sex Gangsters

    4. Having Relationships as a Sex Worker

    5. Live Scene with Ellie Reaux “Show me the applied sciences of the darker spells”

The Ultimate Negotiation: The Secrets to Constructing Mind-blowing Scenes that Leaves them Begging for More!

A proper negotiation can make or break a scene.  Learning to negotiate better, whether over  5 minutes or 2 weeks, will absolutely improve your play.  Negotiation is foreplay. It is understanding, intimacy, and consent. Not just basic consent to play or touch, but the kind of unmistakable consent that allows you the confidence to take the scene to the next level.   

This workshop includes explanation, demonstration and interactive, hands-on participation. Participants will receive a thorough negotiation method and safety checklist with strategies that can be used differently depending on the type of scene and level of experience, including for both long form full negotiations to the quickie five minute play party talk. It includes a negotiation demonstration (what to do, what not to do) as well as a fun hands-on exercise where participants work with people they don't know and attempt to quickly negotiate scenes, then share their experiences. The workshop covers safety, personal health and history concerns, risk profiles, consent and hard limits, as well as tips on to negotiate the "scene."  The latter could range from the play party "amusement-park ride" to the more involved connection scene or role play scene.  

Yoga on the Beach (clothing optional) with Domina Mara

Start your day as nude as you want with some soothing stretches on the edge of the Caribbean Sea! It is the perfect way to prepare your body and mind for a long day of workshops, kink, connections, and play.  This will be a light and fun yoga session suitable for all levels, and you may participate as much or as little as you would like, or do things your own way. 

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